Episode's summary
When Robin Bailey’s husband and father of their three boys died by suicide, she had to figure out the best way to help her children work through their grief while also managing her own sadness and anger. Robin is one of Brisbane’s best-known breakfast radio hosts, and she’s been in the business for decades. When she was 11, Robin’s father died suddenly, and her mother was left to raise Robin and her sister while forging on with her own career. Decades later another tragedy forced Robin into single parenting, after her husband Tony died by suicide. In the aftermath of Tony’s death Robin was determined to make space for all her son’s feelings and their questions as they worked through their grief. With the help of incredible community of friends, she knitted a family back together which was strong enough to face what came next. Further information Robin Bailey's memoir Flamingos Aren't Born Pink is published by Harper Collins Help and support is always available If you need to talk, 24/7 crisis support is…
When Robin Bailey’s husband and father of their three boys died by suicide, she had to figure out the best way to help her children work through their grief while also managing her own sadness and anger. Robin is one of Brisbane’s best-known breakfast radio hosts, and she’s been in the business for decades. When she was 11, Robin’s father died suddenly, and her mother was left to raise Robin and her sister while forging on with her own career. Decades later another tragedy forced Robin into single parenting, after her husband Tony died by suicide. In the aftermath of Tony’s death Robin was determined to make space for all her son’s feelings and their questions as they worked through their grief. With the help of incredible community of friends, she knitted a family back together which was strong enough to face what came next. Further information Robin Bailey's memoir Flamingos Aren't Born Pink is published by Harper Collins Help and support is always available If you need to talk, 24/7 crisis support is…
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