Saved Not Soft

Does God pick my spouse? In this episode, Malik and I talk about choosing a partner for marriage, seeking God's wisdom, and what it means to see marriage as a sacred covenant. Is there one person God has chosen for you—or are you called to make a wise, prayerful choice and faithfully build a life together? We share our thoughts on discernment, commitment, and the beauty and weight of the marriage covenant.

On this episode we have a very special guest; Megan Ashley joining us for the podcast! Megan is like a big sister to Emy and we shared all things prayer, intimacy with Jesus, fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and avoiding a "performing" christian walk. Enjoy! Get $10 off your Elah Ring with code SAVEDNOTSOFT: https://bit.ly/4yopj2Z

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What does atonement mean—and why is it essential to truly knowing Jesus? In this episode, we move beyond simply talking about Jesus to understanding who He is, what He accomplished, and why it changes everything. Beginning in Genesis and tracing the story through the tabernacle, the priesthood, the Day of Atonement, and the book of Hebrews, we see how the Old Testament continually points toward the cross. We'll explore the meaning of atonement, the role of the high priest, the significance of the Holy of Holies, the sacrificial offerings, and how Jesus fulfills it all. He is our perfect High Priest, our spotless sacrifice, and the mediator of the new covenant—the One who offered Himself once for all to cleanse us, reconcile us to God, and restore us to fellowship with Him. God came wrapped in flesh to pay the price for our rebellion. Jesus is both the One who offers and the offering itself. Through His blood, believers can now approach God's throne of grace with confidence and become dwelling places for His…

Talking about money in church should not be awkward—especially when Scripture has so much to say about it. In this episode, we are removing the shame, fear, and defensiveness surrounding finances and returning the conversation to its proper foundation: our love for Jesus. Beginning with the sacrificial generosity of the gospel, we explore how our spending, giving, working, and saving reveal what has captured our hearts. We'll break down the biblical differences between generosity, stewardship, and tithing; confront manipulative teachings about "sowing specific seeds"; and discuss why genuine giving should never come through pressure or compulsion. We'll also examine the holiness of work, the danger of disguising idleness as spirituality, and the responsibility to faithfully develop whatever God has placed in our hands. Through the Parable of the Talents, we'll see that stewardship is deeply connected to how we view our Master—and that God is worthy of more than our leftovers. Finally, we'll talk honestly…

In this episode, Malik and I sit down for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to lead as young adults. We talk about the weight of leadership, the reality of being Christian influencers, the pressure of being seen, and the difference between having a platform and having true responsibility. This is not a polished "we have it all figured out" conversation. It's honest, simple, and grounded in what God is teaching us about influence, humility, obedience, and leading well before you feel fully ready. For every young leader, creator, minister, or believer trying to steward what God placed in their hands, this one is for you. Support the show

In this episode, we're talking about what it means to live fully alive in Jesus — not distracted, not numb, not ruled by fear, and not stuck in unbelief that better days are possible. Life is too short to spend it chasing temporary praise, burying your gifts, avoiding obedience, or letting distraction steal the joy that is found in God's presence. This conversation is a call back to hope. Back to love. Back to awareness of the nearness of Jesus. From Martha being distracted, to Mary pouring out what others called "waste," to Lazarus walking out of the grave, we are reminded that Jesus is not only the resurrection — He is the life. Pouring your life out for Jesus is never a waste. Even if people misunderstand it. Even if it costs you. Even if it looks foolish. The only wasted life is the one spent apart from Him. So if you've been distracted, discouraged, fearful, or feeling like you've lost your joy — come home. There is fullness of joy in His presence, and there is still life to be lived faithfully. Support…

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about receiving my diagnosis of OCD, anxiety, and depression, and the emotions that came with finally having language for a battle I had been carrying silently. As a Christian, I have wrestled with the tension between suffering and faithfulness: what it means to love God, trust God, and still be hurting. This is not a testimony of having everything figured out; it is a testimony of finding Jesus faithful in the middle of pain. I share the harm of a Christianity that dismisses real suffering, the freedom of recognizing that mental battles are not proof of spiritual failure, and the hope of believing in healing without demanding that it happen in only one specific way. Faith does not always look like being unbothered. Sometimes faithfulness is choosing to cling to Christ while your mind and emotions are weary. We do not follow an unwounded Savior, and we do not have to hide our wounds to prove we belong to Him. Support the show

This episode examines the truth about demons by addressing the common misdiagnosis in the church between sin and demonic activity, showing that Scripture speaks far more frequently about human sin and moral responsibility than it does about demons, emphasizing that while spiritual opposition is real, much of what believers attribute to demons is actually the result of disordered desires and the fallen human condition, as seen in James 1:14. The episode explains that sin is a distortion of what God created good, and while the devil tempts, he does not force, meaning transformation comes through repentance and sanctification rather than merely seeking deliverance, as reflected in Colossians 3:5. It challenges fear-based doctrine and overspiritualization by demonstrating through passages like John 9 and Matthew 16 that not every hardship or discomfort is caused by sin or spiritual attack, and argues that overspiritualization often stems from fear and inconsistency, sometimes resembling gnostic thinking that…

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, I'm joined by my husband Malik Brookins for a real and honest conversation about dating, engagement, and marriage. We share our story, how we went from friends to dating to saying yes to forever, and what we learned along the way about trusting God with our relationship. We talk about what it looks like to date intentionally, how to seek God while navigating feelings, how to approach engagement with wisdom, and how marriage continues to refine and grow you. Relationships can feel confusing, exciting, stretching, and beautiful all at once, and our hope is that this conversation encourages you to invite God into every stage of your love story. Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married, we pray this episode reminds you that healthy relationships are built with patience, prayer, humility, and a deep desire to honor the Lord. Support the show

Suffering is unavoidable—but Scripture shows us it is never meaningless. In this episode, we look closely at the sufferings of Jesus: His rejection, betrayal, silence before His accusers, physical agony, and ultimate obedience to the Father. Rather than rushing past the cross, we slow down to ask what Christ's suffering reveals about God's character—and how it reshapes the way we endure our own. To suffer well is not to minimize pain or spiritualize injustice. It is to remain faithful, anchored, and surrendered when obedience is costly and understanding feels distant. Jesus shows us that suffering can be endured without bitterness, faced without despair, and offered back to God as worship. This conversation invites listeners to reframe hardship through the lens of the cross—learning how to suffer with trust, humility, endurance, and hope—knowing that resurrection always follows faithful obedience. Support the show

What if "daddy issues" isn't your identity—but a distortion that healing was always meant to correct? In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we confront the cultural narrative that reduces deep father wounds into a label, and we expose the lie beneath it. Through Scripture and lived experience, we talk about sonship, the difference between wounds and identity, and how deception forms when absence, abandonment, or misuse of authority goes unhealed. This conversation isn't about minimizing pain—it's about redeeming it. We explore how the Father heart of God restores what earthly relationships could not, how Jesus reveals what true fatherhood looks like, and how healing begins when we stop defining ourselves by what was missing and start receiving what was always promised. If you've wrestled with rejection, mistrust, or confusion around authority and love, this episode is an invitation to leave deception, step into truth, and rediscover your identity as a son or daughter—secure, seen, and fully known in Christ.…

The power of Christianity is not found in trends, language, or performance—it is found in the cross. In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we return to the foundation of our faith: the blood of Jesus. We talk about what the blood actually accomplished, why the cross still stands at the center of the gospel, and how redemption is not symbolic—it is authoritative. This conversation explores the biblical meaning of the blood of Christ: forgiveness of sins, reconciliation with God, freedom from condemnation, and the victory secured through Jesus' sacrifice. We address why the blood of Jesus is not something to outgrow, soften, or rebrand, and why its power is just as effective today as it was the moment it was shed. If you've felt distant from the simplicity of the gospel, confused about spiritual authority, or unsure where your confidence before God comes from, this episode is a call back to truth. Our hope is not in ourselves, our obedience, or our spiritual performance—but in the finished work of Jesus. Support…

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Emy sits down with her mom for a raw and heartfelt conversation about how Jesus transformed both of their lives. Together, they unpack her mom's past—how she tried to fill emotional voids without Christ—and the moments that changed everything. This is a powerful story of redemption, restoration, and the kind of love only God can rewrite. Support the show

If you've ever sat down to read your Bible and felt unsure where to begin, you're not alone. In this episode, I'm walking you through a method that's helped me so much in my own quiet time—the POIMA method: Prayer, Observation, Interpretation, Meditation, and Application. It's a simple and intentional way to really understand Scripture and apply it to your life. Whether you're just starting your Bible journey or looking to go deeper, this episode is for you. Let's grow together in God's Word! Support the show

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Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my ministry? DONATE HERE! https://cash.app/$savednotsoftpodcast Feeling led to donate towards our wedding? Click the link below! No pressure, we value prayers above all :) https://www.zola.com/wedding/emyandmalik Support the show

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my ministry? DONATE HERE! https://cash.app/$savednotsoftpodcast Feeling led to donate towards our wedding? Click the link below! No pressure, we value prayers above all :) https://www.zola.com/wedding/emyandmalik Support the show

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my ministry? DONATE HERE! https://cash.app/$savednotsoftpodcast Feeling led to donate towards our wedding? Click the link below! No pressure, we value prayers above all :) https://www.zola.com/wedding/emyandmalik Support the show

Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my ministry? DONATE HERE! https://cash.app/$savednotsoftpodcast Feeling led to donate towards our wedding? Click the link below! No pressure, we value prayers above all :) https://www.zola.com/wedding/emyandmalik Support the show

So many Americans claim Christianity, yet true discipleship is so overlooked. Faith is more than belief; it's a daily walk of trust, obedience, and self-denial (Matthew 10:38-39, James 2:14-19). God calls us into a deeper relationship, not just routine religion. Reflect on what it truly means to follow Christ and embrace the fullness of His love and truth. Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my ministry? DONATE HERE! https://cash.app/$savednotsoftpodcast Feeling led to donate towards our wedding? Click the…

If God is loving and just, why does He allow suffering? In this episode, we explore the tension between pain and God's goodness, starting from the very beginning Genesis 1-3. Love cannot exist without freedom, and with freedom comes the potential for sin and its consequences. But even in suffering, God is compassionate, using it to draw us near. We break down why God allowing suffering doesn't contradict His nature and how trusting Him means releasing our need to understand everything. From generational curses to Jesus own suffering on the cross, we will uncover how God's response to pain has always been mercy. Let's shift our perspective and embrace a deeper trust in His plan. Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! :…

Fear of embarrassment can rob you of the very opportunities God has placed before you. Faith and fear both demand belief—one in God's unseen promises, the other in worst-case assumptions. In the Parable of the Bags of Gold, we see how fear led one servant to hide his gift instead of investing it, ultimately losing his chance to please his master. The same is true for us—when we hide our God-given opportunities out of fear and shame, we miss out on His greater plans. Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd3SxFDFmGgk-TBNA-8rtWdDJqi5JWw6_jyAzBiyGlwON96nw/viewform?usp=sf_link Needing Prayer?: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScdnDYvYSLpLJhHc3ZVPUX3XripoQEermFjcPN2cB5UWg19Hg/viewform Do you want to tithe towards my…

No matter how far you've strayed, God's grace is always just one step away. Emy uncovers how struggles, loss, and even our own disobedience can be used to fulfill God's greater purpose in this powerful reflection on the story of Ruth and Naomi. Ruth's journey from a foreigner to a woman redeemed is a testament to faith, perseverance, and divine favor. Her decision to leave her old life behind led to blessings beyond what she could have imagined—ultimately playing a role in the lineage of Jesus. Your pain does not lack purpose, and your obedience is bigger than just you. Step into the newness that God has for you today! Thanks for watching this episode! I would love to connect with you guys! I am so blessed for every one of your faces! Instagram: @savednotsoftpodcast Personal Instagram: @emymooree Tiktok: @savednotsoftpodcast Shop the merchandise! https://savednotsoftshop.com I GAVE MY LIFE TO JESUS! :…

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we're reflecting on the year and talking about what it means to finish strong—spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. As we close out this season, I'm sharing personal lessons God has taught me, encouragement to keep pressing forward, and a reminder that His plans for you are still in motion—no matter how the year started. I'm also thrilled to announce that Saved Not Soft will be back next year with Season 3! Expect more faith-filled conversations, special guests, and powerful testimonies that inspire and equip you to live boldly for Christ. Grab your coffee, journal, and Bible as we dive into this heartfelt episode—and get ready for an even stronger year ahead! Support the show

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we're diving into the transformative power of thanksgiving even in the face of affliction. Life often brings trials that can feel overwhelming, but the Bible gives us clear examples of how gratitude can lead to peace, freedom, and renewed strength. Together, we'll unpack scriptures that teach us to shift our focus from our pain to God's promises. Whether you're navigating a tough season or looking for a deeper way to grow in faith, this episode will inspire you to escape the weight of affliction by embracing a heart of thanksgiving. Let's trade our burdens for God's joy! Support the show

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we dive deep into the power of repentance and its ability to bring true restoration and healing. Drawing wisdom from Joel 2, Ezekiel 33, and Isaiah 6, we'll uncover how returning to God with a sincere heart not only leads to personal transformation but also restores our relationship with Him. Discover how repentance renews our souls, mends our wounds, and calls us back to God's purpose for our lives. Join us for a powerful conversation on embracing God's grace, experiencing freedom from the past, and allowing His love to heal us fully. Support the show

Join me for an extra-special episode as my fiancé; Malik Brookins, and I share the story of our engagement! We're diving into the beauty of God's timing, the journey of our relationship, and how mentorship and faith played a huge role in bringing us together. From commitment to purity, to the details of the proposal, and even a few laughs, we're letting you in on what it's like to pursue a Christ-centered love. Tune in for a conversation that celebrates love, growth, and all things Jesus Support the show

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we dive deep into the subtle ways idolatry creeps into our lives, especially for young women navigating faith in a culture full of distractions. From social media to relationships, success to self-image—there are countless "golden calves" vying for our attention. But how do we recognize them? And more importantly, how do we break free from their hold? Join us as we unpack the biblical story of the golden calf, relate it to modern-day idols, and discover how we can prioritize God above all else. It's time to shatter the false gods that are holding you back from true freedom in Christ. Tune in to get real, get challenged, and get encouraged to live fully for Him. Support the show

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There tends to be this stereotype of the faith that uses Christianity as a safety net. We will shout with joy and praise the name of God, but do you truly find faith in Jesus Christ? When your faith is tested, will you still be obedient and trust the voice of God? In this episode we will be speaking upon boldness, living a life of faith, and studying in Daniel 6 as to why our safe space is in our faith! Support the show

Waiting seasons can be really challenging to our faith. It can become easy to lose faith due to our circumstances, but our circumstances shouldn't be our chains to unfaithfulness. God is a God who HEALS! It may not always look the way that we could imagine, but the Lord is steady and faithful to the promises He makes to His children. We'll be reading from Mark 5! God's will, WILL be done! Support the show

Hey Saved Not Soft Family! This week is super exciting as we have special guests; Malik Brookins, Perri Costley Morales and Danny Morales talk about "Godly Friendships" and "Finding Purpose." Support the show

How do I love my enemies? How do I bless those who have cursed me? In this episode, we will be exposing the attack of satan of pinning loved ones against us, while we learn how to love those that may seem difficult to care about. If we must follow the example of Jesus, we must know how to properly wash feet! Support the show

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Join me and Ally while we navigate a handful of conversations! Ally first opens up about her testimony and her early stages of first finding Jesus. From there: we talk about remaining in the awe of God, how to read your bible, and expectations we're supposed to have as Christians. Support the show

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A lot of the times, we fail to check our own hearts and motives on a daily basis. We cry out to God and ask Him for us to make us pure; but we must look at the deepest parts of our hearts to then examine it. Check your heart, sets you on the path for repentance in order to progress in purity. This episode talks about the depths of analyzing your own heart and continuously discovering freedom in Christ! Support the show

Sometimes we allow our current or past circumstances to get in the way receiving the joy we have been promised. Most of the time without even realizing it, we allow our trauma to triumph over our life. God wants to flip the script and have us step into a position of authority through to turn our pain into power! Your circumstances do not decide your destiny, God does! This episode dives into how and why the Lord calls us to triumph over our trauma. Support the show

When it comes to choosing a partner; sometimes we can choose people off of potential and pleasure rather than purpose. This episode really dives deep into what to look for in a relationship, what the dating pool looks like as a Christian, and how to take advantage of your singleness Support the show

Change the perspective of your season. Maybe God is bringing you through the fore so you never go back to the smoke. God wants to elevate you into the next without carrying your mess! Support the show

When it comes to giving your "Yes" to Jesus, what does that look like? This episode goes over what it's like going from a "Hot Girl" to a "Holy Girl." Support the show

Stepping in 2024.. what are some take always we can bring from the previous year? How do we stay disciplined and hold ourselves accountable for the season God is wanting us to step into? This episode talks about all things for stepping into a new season and the power of transformation! Support the show

Some things are easier said than done! This episode talks about walking through suffering and being joyous even in our roughest seasons. Support the show