The Clement Manyathela Show

The Clement Manyathela Show

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8240 - Sex focus – Enhancing sexual pleasure in same sex relationships
The best interviews and discussions from each day's show.
8240 - Sex focus – Enhancing sexual pleasure in same sex relationships
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The best interviews and discussions from each day's show.

Episode's summary

Host Clement and sexologist Casey Blake discuss how to enhance sexual pleasure in same-sex relationships by moving away from heteronormative scripts, redefining sexual acts beyond penetration, and viewing foreplay as the psychological build-up and communication that occurs before an encounter. The episode also explores the importance of intentionality through techniques like 'pleasure mapping' and navigating how gender roles can limit intimacy. Additionally, the conversation covers the use of sex toys and various forms of stimulation to enhance pleasure while emphasizing safety and comfort.

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Highlights

The queer lens says, let's throw the scripts out because clearly you're here because the fucking scripts aren't working.

00:03:28 · Casey Blake explains her therapeutic approach of questioning societal sexual norms to help couples find what actually works for them.

the obsession with penetration is heteronormative.

00:06:44 · The discussion highlights how the focus on penetrative sex is a byproduct of heterosexual reproductive norms rather than a necessity for pleasure.

foreplay is what happens before we play, right? Before play. If sex is the play, which includes the kissing and the sensual touching, then foreplay happens before there's an encounter.

00:12:03 · Casey Blake clarifies that true foreplay is the mental and communicative build-up that occurs outside of the actual sexual encounter.

We're looking for where does your body like me touching you and how? So you're going to put some time aside. And this is not a sensate focus exercise... This is pleasure mapping.

00:15:13 · The speaker introduces the concept of pleasure mapping as an intentional way to discover physical preferences through communication.

If we take away orgasm as the goal, There's amazing processes and journeys we can go on because we're just looking for what feels nice.

00:34:22 · The speaker suggests shifting focus from reaching an orgasm to enjoying the sensory experience of sex.

Episodes

8240-

Sex focus – Enhancing sexual pleasure in same sex relationships

Host Clement and sexologist Casey Blake discuss how to enhance sexual pleasure in same-sex relationships by moving away from heteronormative scripts, redefining sexual acts beyond penetration, and viewing foreplay as the psychological build-up and communication that occurs before an encounter. The episode also explores the importance of intentionality through techniques like 'pleasure mapping' and navigating how gender roles can limit intimacy. Additionally, the conversation covers the use of sex toys and various forms of stimulation to enhance pleasure while emphasizing safety and comfort.

17 Jul 2026
8239-

Across the desk - Mandela granddaughter reflects on legacy

Clement Manyatella interviews Zamaswazi Swati Mandela Dlamini, the granddaughter of Nelson and Winnie Madikizela-Mandela, about the Netflix documentary 'The Trials of Winnie Mandela'. The conversation explores the emotional difficulty of uncovering family secrets through a journal and the profound impact of seeing Winnie's untold struggles and sacrifices in her own words. The episode further discusses the complexities of Winnie Madikizela-Mandela's legacy, reflecting on her peace with her life choices despite the heavy costs of political struggle. Through personal memories from family members and listener calls, the discussion touches upon her character, fashion, and the importance of telling a nuanced story of women in the struggle.

17 Jul 2026
8238-

NPA says Andrea Johnson back at work after Madlanga no-show

In this episode of the 702 open line, host Clement Manzinga interviews Kaiser Khanyako, spokesperson for the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA), regarding the ongoing developments at the Madlanga Commission. The discussion focuses on the NDPP's response to concerns over public trust in institutions like the IDEC and the NPA, specifically concerning crime intelligence cases and procedural mistakes. Khanyako outlines the NDPP's plan to review all crime intelligence-related cases through an independent external panel and discusses the status of warrants of arrest involving crime intelligence officers.

17 Jul 2026
8237-

#702Openline: Seputla Sebogodi- viewers reflect on favourite moments

The episode begins with a tribute to the late veteran actor Siputla Siborodi, reflecting on his iconic role as Kenneth Mashaba in 'Generations' alongside listener memories. The discussion then shifts to serious allegations of corruption and fraud within Crime Intelligence, specifically investigating potential conflicts of interest involving General Khan and the integrity of the NPA and IDEC leadership. The program also explores the complexities of SAPS operations, including the mechanics of lateral recruitment used to bring specialized professional skills into the police force. The episode concludes with a discussion on the critical importance of witnesses appearing before commissions to expose institutional corruption.

17 Jul 2026
8236-

The Dialogue - Is IDAC facing an institutional crisis?

This episode features a panel discussion regarding the institutional crisis facing IDEC, focusing on allegations of misconduct against its head, Andrea Johnson. Experts debate whether the issue stems from individual leadership or fundamental structural weaknesses within the National Prosecuting Authority and the legislative framework. The conversation explores the potential interference of crime intelligence and examines whether structural legislative impediments or external political influences are responsible for the decline of South Africa's investigative bodies. The discussion also addresses the necessity of political independence, the importance of leadership skills beyond technical expertise, and recent revelations from the Matlaka Commission.

16 Jul 2026